i am a girl
if i have a man i love .i surely tell him
because if he loves me too ,that will be a romantic love story isn `t it?:)
and if he dont love me and that`s okay we may be in different world,
we can be friends!
and i dont want to force him to love me he has his right to do everything like loving the one he loves
so my opinion is to tell her if she loves you too and then you get her
if she doesnt like you just be her friend try your best to help her and give her happiness you wont lose her
so you dont have to get he