Recently has been a bit confused, and read many novels, listening to a lot of other people's stories, more like do not understand. Girls to age, are to face an embarrassing, or some people would be more fortunate to avoid such embarrassment, but I know, I never have that luck. This age, if both love and career, then congratulations, this is a very easy thing; if love and career have one, then the same congratulations, at least with the goal of life and power; if both no love and no cause, that is a matter of embarrassment. The most difficult thing is to make a choice, a choice may be able to change someone's life.
On this age love, do not know yet that should not have to believe. People who met that accompany life, we will meet their loved people and loved had been his own man, and he has done for their loved one all the crazy things, and the rest is the responsibility of a simple, family responsibilities. So have to go through all sorts of ways to find, just to find a suitable the marriage, perhaps indifferent love and not love, it is so two people through life, in fact, he knew deep down favorite of the man was not around for this person But can what? Life still have to continue.
This kind of life and family I do not know whether to go to, it is desirable to accept. Perhaps the two are experienced vicissitudes, the heart has been exhausted, to find a person, as long as is appropriate on the line, and will not lonely, and will not bleak. Just do not know such a marriage, when in the dead of night occasionally think about, will not regret it, would not sorry. The next morning, they are a bunch of things, cooking, laundry, cleaning, child care, and her husband, holidays to visit elderly people, taking time to see his father and mother ,···, Do the things on their own husband things he dislikes lazy to say, or you like. If we lucky that her husband has done his own heart, a life that was decent. If you are not lucky, facing family crisis, divorce, sub-family property ,···, then is exhausted. To share of responsibility in their youth, but eventually left his, so more of the hard, slow, day by day, grow old! The cruel reality has worn away the ideals and pursuits, can only bow in reality, then bow their heads, bending all his passion.
Think of this way of life feel terrible, I do not want this life. I want to have their own ideals and goals, I want to have their own circle of life and space, I want to have their own business ,···. Yes, family is important, but life must not be all, sometimes it will lose its fuel in the enthusiasm for life. Has always been very envious of our instructors, not only because of her academic, more because of her husband, because he was willing to sacrifice their own ideal of love. Heart or hope, to meet the ideals that are willing to sacrifice for my people, but I know, how could, people are for themselves, and I understand, but I would like to know that if the meet for marriage people, I can not make a request, do not ask him to love me more than any person before, just ask him to know more about me, more attention to me, at least our marriage is not only the responsibility, at least I am willing to his seeking to make sacrifices, Can I also ask him to make even a little bit of the ideal of sacrifice?
The traditional mode of Chinese families, women worked hard this family, but you can rest easy, man lived, because the family's income comes from men. Like in the Chinese family is so, who's earning more who have the right to speak. This time a little scary, so women must be independent, must have their own income, at least not a man, you can also continue their own lives, so do not swallow. I want to strive to study, efforts to live, all in one day, that person is not qualified to say: you did not know the house is mine, I give you money, how do you live without me, * * *. I am better qualified than you are low, I am less than you earn, the house to pay my car there, you are not qualified to do that!
Life is hard, how to face, how to choose, is a problem, just dim the lights, I know, there will not be waiting for that person. So, head down, through the light hearted indifference, waiting to set his car went end of life, just do not know, will not be sorry?
Set me sad to go, not you! ,