1.If I am a parent,I will.
First of all,I will trust my children,let them know I love them,let them know that I care about them very much,let them feel warm and safety.
Secondly,I will make conversations with children often.Acturally,
there's no genaration gap between parents and children,if you always exchange your opion with your children.
Third,if my childern want to keep his or her own secrets,want to do something and don't want to tell me(I gess every children want to do that),if that thing doesn't make a serious mistake(like break the law),I will allow them to do even if they will fail--at least it's a good experience for them.
Finaly,sometimes being like a kid,have a childlike,imagine what if you are a child,then you will understand your children.
It's not difficult,isn't that?
2.My 14th birthday
When my 14th birthday came,I felt not happy anyway. Because my parents didn't pay any attention to it. I thought they were too busy to remember my birthday.
On the night of that day, I got back home and found nobody. I had to do supper for myself. My tears slipped from my eyes. I felt lonely and sad as if I was abondoned by the whole world. Why they were so busy all day? They didn't care me at all!
When I finished my homework,my parents came back. I said nothing but went to my bed. I closed my eyes but in fact I couldn't fall asleep.
Then I heard my mother came in and sat beside me.
"I'm sorry baby."she said in a low and tiring voice,"I know why you are so unhappy. Sometimes I think I'm not a good mother, but you konw,both I and your fater are busy these days. We always want to make more money .'cause you will go to the senior high school next year. You need more money for the further education..."
I opened my eyes ,and found tears shone in my mother's eyes. I forgave them at once.
Sometimes ,your parents will forget your important days, but now I konw that doesn't mean they don' love you.