写给三年后的自己
A letter to Myself in three years' time
亲爱的自己,你现在还好吗?
Dear me,How are things with you?
今
年已经24了,如果还没有结婚的话,你现在有没有着急?亲人及朋友有没有催促你,给你一些外界的压力?You're 24 years old this
year.Say you remain unmarried,are you still taking all the time you
need to search for your Mr.Right?Have you been urged insistently by
your folks and friends to "tie the knot"?Do you feel any pressure from
them?
你现在有了明确的目标及人生观和价值观了吗?并且为之在努力实践及拼搏了吗?
Have you
developed a clear-cut view of life and values,and set for yourself
specific goals,for which you've been trying and struggling?
你现在遇事有自己的主见和立场了吗?
The moment you are up against a situation,will you be able to make your own judgement and hold onto it?
你现在能否面对任何事情都不要抱怨,首先自省,并且勇于接受和乐观积极的面对吗?
Can
you face up to whatever happens in life without a murmur?Will you take
the initiative to first examine yourself then "grin and bear it" with a
positive attitude?
你现在遇事能否冷静及客观的面对,而不是容易掺杂自己的主观意见?
Facing
a situation,can you stay poised and hold an objective view other than
let any subjective view get in the way just like that?
你现在和别人相处能否尽量不麻烦别人,而是抱着尽量帮助别人的态度吗?
Will
you see what you can do not to bother people around you for anything?
Will you hold an altruistic attitude towards them instead?
你现在能否做到严于律己,自己说过的话一定要做到,可能做不到的事在说之前就要慎重考虑?
Can
you be self-desplined,as good as your word?Do you "look before leap"
when it comes to sth that might be a bit much to handle?
亲爱的自己,你现在能以客观、积极的态度对待别人和自己吗?这是现在的你一直期望的.
Dear
me,can you now treat other people and yourself with an objective and
positive attitude.Isn't that the way you've been hoping to be?
这是may督促你写的,你们俩现在什么情况?现在回想起来能否温馨一笑?而不是懊悔自己没有努力对待.
So
I'm writing this letter as a reminder intended for you.I would like to
know how you two have getting along in life?Looking back upon your
life,will you just put on a sweet smile?Or will you feel bitter
regrets for not having coped with it as you should?
总结起来一句话,我希望你可以认真面对人生,现在做到了吗?
In a word,I hope you're taking life seriously and coping with it like an adult.Is that what you are doing now?